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The past is the past

I had a friend come over Saturday night. I don't think I've had a friend come over Saturday night in years. It was the start of a change in me.

For many people having friends over is commonplace, it's "normal"... Whatever normal is.

It's hasn't been my "normal" for many years. I could stop and analyse why, and I could come up with a whole host of reasons. But what's the benefit in that? The past happened.

The future hasn't happened yet, and I'm in charge of that. My life is what it is, my future is what I make it.

 I truly believe that if you want something enough you can make it happen. I've been feeling pretty motivated lately to take charge. I accept there are some things which are out of my control but it just means I have to find ways around them or re-evaluate what's important to me.

I have my goals.
I have people in my life that matter.
I have a future.

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  1. silvergirl122 January 2020 at 11:01

    Your attitude to your past and your future is incredible. You will make things happen. Can't wait to see future blog posts.

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